Packed up and headed out of Denver on Nov 8th |
Rest In Peace ~ Timothy Eugene Hayes
August 11th, 1959 - December 7th, 2013
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One month ago exactly I packed up and left Denver with my front wheel pointed towards Atlanta for a number of reasons. First, I wanted to spend time with family and friends. I also wanted to experience the warmth and peace of being home with my mother before my big trip and adventure. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to her doting over me (i.e. doing my laundry, making my bed, etc). Most importantly however, I wanted to spend time with my stepfather Tim while he battled the final stages of his illness. There were a lot of feelings that I had and a lot of things that I wanted to communicate to Tim before it was too late.
Enjoying a night out on his birthday w/ friends |
The happy couple circa 93' |
In the almost 25 years that I've known him, and the 23 years that Tim was married to my mother, I never saw him get mad. Seriously, not once... He would become frustrated with people and things, but would always shrug it off, and a smile would return almost immediately. In fact, I'll never forget the time that he let me drive his prized Chevrolet Monte Carlo out of the driveway when I was around 12 years old. Long story short, I ended up backing that beautiful car right into another parked vehicle and was terrified that Tim would be so mad and upset. I'll never forget, he just looked and me and said "well, that's what insurance is for I guess". Not another word was spoken about it.
Tim & Shirley Hayes |
Tim goofing off at work |
Tim, you were an amazing person. Full of kindness, warmth, laughter, and unconditional love. You taught me not to judge, not to hold anger, and many, many other lessons (some of which I'm still working on). You will never be forgotten.
With love...
~ D
What an amazing person an influence in your life. Beautiful post. Our love and thoughts are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteVery well written, for someone who was clearly worth writing well about. My condolences to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't have written a more beautiful tribute. Sending all the love in the world to you and your family. I'm so sorry....
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